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		<title>Comment on Epilogue by The Covert Lover</title>
		<link>http://hersecretsexlife.wordpress.com/2007/01/22/epilogue/#comment-441</link>
		<dc:creator>The Covert Lover</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 May 2008 23:18:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m bipolar too, but I was diagnosed 14 years ago so I&#039;ve had plenty of time to get used to it, and learn how to keep it under wraps.  
Wow, husbands boss.... that had bad news written all over it from the start! lol</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m bipolar too, but I was diagnosed 14 years ago so I&#8217;ve had plenty of time to get used to it, and learn how to keep it under wraps.<br />
Wow, husbands boss&#8230;. that had bad news written all over it from the start! lol</p>
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		<title>Comment on How many partners is too many? by The Covert Lover</title>
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		<dc:creator>The Covert Lover</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 May 2008 23:14:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post. Some people put just waaay too much importance in numbers.  Numbers don&#039;t necessarily have anything to do with who you are currently, they say something about your past. If you had a terrible time as a teen and your way of acting out was sleeping with everyone in sight for a couple of years, and then you didn&#039;t have sex for 5 years - and your new mate asked for a number, if you told him 80 that would definitely not give him the correct impression of who you are today.

It&#039;s funny how some people obsess about numbers and others don&#039;t even want to know. My lover would never ask me such a question, he doesn&#039;t want to know anything I&#039;ve done in the past!

Great post. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post. Some people put just waaay too much importance in numbers.  Numbers don&#8217;t necessarily have anything to do with who you are currently, they say something about your past. If you had a terrible time as a teen and your way of acting out was sleeping with everyone in sight for a couple of years, and then you didn&#8217;t have sex for 5 years &#8211; and your new mate asked for a number, if you told him 80 that would definitely not give him the correct impression of who you are today.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s funny how some people obsess about numbers and others don&#8217;t even want to know. My lover would never ask me such a question, he doesn&#8217;t want to know anything I&#8217;ve done in the past!</p>
<p>Great post. <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Comment on How many partners is too many? by janeyruth</title>
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		<dc:creator>janeyruth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Feb 2008 09:31:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>When it all becomes a blur, it&#039;s too many...

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When it all becomes a blur, it&#8217;s too many&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Comment on Why you shouldn&#8217;t sleep with your husband&#8217;s boss (part 1) by Best CreditCard</title>
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		<dc:creator>Best CreditCard</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jan 2008 07:05:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello, your site leaves an impression! It&#039;s utterly important that the site should be created by experts, especially a credit related site. I also found a web source presenting various credit card applications for credit history of all types and customer support which can answer any question concerning choosing card or building credit -
 
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello, your site leaves an impression! It&#8217;s utterly important that the site should be created by experts, especially a credit related site. I also found a web source presenting various credit card applications for credit history of all types and customer support which can answer any question concerning choosing card or building credit -</p>
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<p>Ne72Ma9rod</p>
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		<title>Comment on Kissing by itesty</title>
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		<dc:creator>itesty</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Jun 2007 19:05:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on Kissing by itesty</title>
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		<dc:creator>itesty</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Jun 2007 07:05:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on How many partners is too many? by jakoob</title>
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		<dc:creator>jakoob</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Mar 2007 09:27:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The number question. 
Is it something about quantity against quality? That seems the most simple explanation. But what is quality? Hard to say, because people are too different to equalize them in such a way. What might be quality to one person, might be experienced in a totally different way by another person. I would however say that numbers matters, because it is not only saying something about your sexual history, but also about the way a person is. It is therefore no use pretending you are a virgin when you are fucking around, unless you want to fool yourself. Why would anybody put up the question about the number of sexual partners? That should answer the question. Feeling guilty? Why? It is you is not it?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The number question.<br />
Is it something about quantity against quality? That seems the most simple explanation. But what is quality? Hard to say, because people are too different to equalize them in such a way. What might be quality to one person, might be experienced in a totally different way by another person. I would however say that numbers matters, because it is not only saying something about your sexual history, but also about the way a person is. It is therefore no use pretending you are a virgin when you are fucking around, unless you want to fool yourself. Why would anybody put up the question about the number of sexual partners? That should answer the question. Feeling guilty? Why? It is you is not it?</p>
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		<title>Comment on About Hypatia by FOTIS</title>
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		<dc:creator>FOTIS</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Mar 2007 14:01:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Very interesting, have a nice day hypatia.
I visit your blog because hypatia was a wonderful lady, in ancient times. Hypatia of Alexandria - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hypatia_of_Alexandria
See you.,.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very interesting, have a nice day hypatia.<br />
I visit your blog because hypatia was a wonderful lady, in ancient times. Hypatia of Alexandria &#8211; <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hypatia_of_Alexandria" rel="nofollow">http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hypatia_of_Alexandria</a><br />
See you.,.</p>
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		<title>Comment on How many partners is too many? by ladyinred</title>
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		<dc:creator>ladyinred</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Mar 2007 11:01:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The numbers question is one that I have pondered many times in the last 7 months. when I first began my quest last summer I was having 3 or 4 dates a week. Now I have settled for 3 or 4 lovers but I dont see any of them too often as all are married. I still see others occasionally. I am torn between what I am doing being too many partners and being fulfilled by the lovers I have and as they each bring something different to my life they compliment each other.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The numbers question is one that I have pondered many times in the last 7 months. when I first began my quest last summer I was having 3 or 4 dates a week. Now I have settled for 3 or 4 lovers but I dont see any of them too often as all are married. I still see others occasionally. I am torn between what I am doing being too many partners and being fulfilled by the lovers I have and as they each bring something different to my life they compliment each other.</p>
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		<title>Comment on How many partners is too many? by Gillette</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gillette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Feb 2007 20:46:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ha..so fun to find this post here as I have been thinking about writing about numbers.  I loved that line in &quot;Mr. and Mrs. Smith&quot; where they are talking about how many hits they had done.  Pitt looks cocky and says &quot;50,&quot; thinking that Jolie&#039;s silence means she is impressed or something.  She hesitates to tell him how many she has done, then when pushed says &quot;400.&quot; ( if memory serves me correctly..which it often doesn&#039;t, but suffice it to say it was way more than 50).  This one made me laugh lots.

I do think it is connection and I don&#039;t think numbers matter, but then I met two people who impressed the hell out of me.  

One was a gay man who said he had had over 1000 partners.

The other was an escort for eight years.  She had estimated that she had had over 3500 partners. 
 
Now that impresses me, no matter what my ideas about connection vs. numbers.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ha..so fun to find this post here as I have been thinking about writing about numbers.  I loved that line in &#8220;Mr. and Mrs. Smith&#8221; where they are talking about how many hits they had done.  Pitt looks cocky and says &#8220;50,&#8221; thinking that Jolie&#8217;s silence means she is impressed or something.  She hesitates to tell him how many she has done, then when pushed says &#8220;400.&#8221; ( if memory serves me correctly..which it often doesn&#8217;t, but suffice it to say it was way more than 50).  This one made me laugh lots.</p>
<p>I do think it is connection and I don&#8217;t think numbers matter, but then I met two people who impressed the hell out of me.  </p>
<p>One was a gay man who said he had had over 1000 partners.</p>
<p>The other was an escort for eight years.  She had estimated that she had had over 3500 partners. </p>
<p>Now that impresses me, no matter what my ideas about connection vs. numbers.</p>
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